you know what i mean by that, right? when it's all "extra". when you got what you expected (potatoes) but then there's something extra on top of that expectation (the gravy).
it happens in life a LOT and i love it. i love the gravy.
for me the phrase is very similar to "Playing with house money."
just have fun & enjoy it because it's all extra anyway. it's above expectations. like when an underdog comes through. you didn't even expect them to be in the game, but they actually did well? wow. that was all gravy. OR the freshman kid who starts on Varsity = everything he does is all gravy.
when there are no expectations with people there are great opportunities for gravy. no expectations for that person to perform, but then they actually do... well, that was all gravy.
*I wish I could go back to 16 or 18 or 21 or even 24 and know what I know now…
i wish i could go back to stages of my life when it was ALL GRAVY. because those were the days and i don't think i even realized it.
nobody really expected much from me because i was young. so if i did anything halfway decent it was like, "whoa". (spelled "a-l-l g-r-a-v-y")
i've thought about it a few times. if i could just go back with what i know now... with the awareness of what i've figured out... with the little experience i've gained... that would be awesome. i could really pile on the gravy.
i've been reading a book this year (and a lot over the weekend) called The Pocket Guide to Adulthood: 29 Things to Know Before You Hit 30
reading it has prompted me to think about this a little more. because, in your 20s, in a lot of ways, there's still a lot of gravy to be had. but (from my perspective) not so much once you hit 30.
& this realization hit me - "dude, you're 28. 30 is hunting you down. forget the gravy. where's the actual potatoes? it's not all extra anymore. you just gotta bring it from now on. what have you been waiting on?"
i know it was this kind of thinking that contributed to my 4 month "mid life crisis" at the end of last year. so, i'm not dwelling on it. i'm not bummed by it. i'm just motivating myself with it. because i want to look back at 38 and see something drastically different than looking back at 28.
but still. "if only" i could go back in time... know what i know now... do it over... could be some serious gravy
but I can’t know what I know now without living these years/experiences.
I guess that’s the whole point.